Support team

Today was harsh. I opened up Facebook to see someone post about a run they did and how they realized they were out of shape. A run for a cause that is important to them. In the meantime, I did a virtual walk alone for a condition that I deal with every second of my day. My condition is not worthy to walk for as it was not important enough to that person. Ouch.

Reality is, this person has never organized or initiated anything that is uncomfortable for them. Having to organize an event or support means you have to take risks and initiate. A support team leads, and helps in whatever way they can. A support team pitches in and makes the person they are supporting feel loved and special. That is at least my idea of a support team. I have run races to support my friends dealing with being a burn victim. I have helped financially but also showed up for them to see that I am there for them. This is what we are called to do. Christians are supposed to be there for each other. People are supposed to be there for each other. Support is a give and take. Support is community based and shows love.

I am grateful for the others who God has sent into my life to be my support team. A friend who drives me to an MRI and waits for me to come out as she knows I was so scared. A friend who goes with me to get Botox injections into my skull as she knows that I need someone to be there. A friend who waits outside of the office while I see a neurosurgeon for a consult I had been waiting for for over 6 months. I dont need someone to fix my medical issues. I need someone to understand and listen and support. I am so grateful for the people God has sent into my life. I am greatly saddened by those who are choosing to not support me. God knows.